I don’t understand the point of leaving the child to the father, not to the mother.
When a baby is born, it is the woman who is next to the baby 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. At the same time, different homework is performed. When the child was born, he went to work and went. And some people like to say that a woman does not do anything, but rests in a maternity vacation.
When a child grows up, a woman also goes to work, but her duties are added to school, circles, trips to doctors and other labyrinths. And daddy is virtually not involved in this (30 minutes in the evening for dinner maximum). And do you seriously think that the man to whom you left a child will do them? Clean up, cook lunch, check homework, buy clothes, etc. He will find another grandmother. And in the end, the child is not left by the father, but given to another grandmother. And what is the meaning of this?