How much less do you love a woman?

I had a man with such a Pushkin attitude to the lady of the heart.
He paid attention to the crops, sometimes just played football like a ball.
I cried, I suffered, I wondered, why is that so?

He invited me to dinner and made a cake. But he did not come.
Call a guy, what happened?
It turned out that the elevator did not work at my entrance that night, and I live on the third floor.

I was horribly offended.
After some time began to meet with a fellow student, a romance began, everything was different than less a woman we love even did not attend: meetings with me became a priority for him.
So after I had another, the first suddenly woke up, began to show signs of attention, thinking that I was his girlfriend. The calls began, fierce confessions, attempts to meet - and I answered everything with one - the elevator broke.
So the old Pushkin was 100% wrong.
PS Who can explain what men by this method? What do we have not stored, lost bitterly crying?