Let’s start with the fact that the “irresponsible goat” is a purely subjective concept in a woman’s head.
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You and the goat!
You consider your wife a complete idiot who doesn't feel that you don't love her and cheat her to the left and right (so the head hurts, including). she even tries to hang some affairs, just not to cheat (bad tactics, but many are going in this direction). This time.
And you also try to make her a maid, she goes to work, and you sleep in the bedroom, she comes in the evening - and you rest on the couch after work, and not even washed the dishes, is it a goat? It is two.
Well, and finally, believe me, if she came home, and there you were all like that with flowers and sex, cooked the coffee, she would go pleasantly and did everything with the words, "Sit, sweet, dear." and a lazy pig in a sweater on the side of a pig behind a compot does not please anyone.
Shorter than a goat, you are natural, not "subjective".
I am happily married.