And in general, ladies, please help a man who wants to call things by their names, and has had to play a guess.
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I can give you my husband’s recipe. Conducting me home on a slippery road, he embraced me. “Do you want to support me or to embrace me?” I asked, hoping to confuse him. “What’s wrong with wanting to embrace you?” he asked. He explained that he believes sexual desire is absolutely normal and healthy for both men and women. If two single people like each other, they can sleep, without any back-thoughts, long-playing plans, and second senses.
But we had a lot of common interests, so sex became a part of relationships and communication, not a goal in itself.