Respected (precisely, not especially respected, but still) gentlemen regularly appearing supporters of free relationships, betrayal, frequent change of partners, shouting "and this is normal!".
NO, you are not a super-megastrous alphaci, you are a potentia or even an active ZPP plant. And it is not necessary to start, that in ancient times, men fucked everything that moves, and these were really steep men, and those who are satisfied with one partner's cables, tricks and impotents, in ancient times it was normal to die from syphilis - very cool and alpha!