Listen, I am already in the role of the parent of a grown-up child. The student has his own room, my wife and I have our own. Of course, knowing on my own skin how difficult and expensive to rent housing, I will not drive it out. But if he finally decides to go alone, I’ll be very pleased. very very!
Not because I don’t love him. And because it will mean that the child has achieved some professional, social and financial independence, and, therefore, I can no longer worry about him. For example, in case something happens to us, and in general.
However, the free room will also not be superfluous, yes. And the money I spent on it before, I will find application. Is it so terrible?
But if he doesn’t eat, but comes with a request to help with the first deposit and mortgage, I probably won’t refuse either. Because it’s also a step towards independence and it would be stupid not to welcome it.