A 4-year-old child was given a whisper. The horror began, the child used the gift constantly, the aunt shone, the most needed was a gift. After a week of our torture, I said that the gift can only be used in the visits to the grandmother, because it is her gift, and you need to show how happy you are that she gave it. And so the child was constantly asking for visits to the grandmother (and the grandmother did not really like to argue with the grandson), and after the third visit I did not see the aunt for three months, and the whisper disappeared somewhere.