Imagine you are drinking with a friend. As usual, respect each other spiritually, swear in friendship to the grave. And on the wave of enthusiasm, the friend says, "Bla, lecha, I will do everything for you, do you believe? Here are those thousands of bucks as a gift, so you are my great friend"
Take it? Do you go back to sleep in the morning?
This is a question to the gentlemen without moral principles from the violence of shame.