Do you know what the difference is?
My child, whispering at 7 a.m. or 3 a.m., also takes me out of order. Especially when there is no obvious reason. I am not comfortable in front of my neighbors and I try to calm him, because I love silence. But he is small and difficult to agree with. But my old neighbors are quite consciously noisy and they don’t care whether they interfere with someone or not.