The coincidence of life goals, etc.

Is there anything that can lie to your face? I told my then bride that I wanted two to four children, and I would not go for adoption/adoption. In response I heard, “I dream of becoming a mother, but you have to make money so that we can provide.” OK, three years later I am no longer a student and I make money, I will start talking about children again. In response, I get hysteria, petitions to adopt someone and gradually it turns out that my wife has a deep psychosis on the topic of childbirth and she is not going to go to the doctor with this problem.

I am preparing for divorce.