Do you want a story about non-containers? Not my personal, but my relatives.
He and she decided to go. He, as a advocate of equality, who does not want to humiliate a woman with gifts, offers her expenses in half: he pays for services (the apartment is in her possession), she buys food, household chemicals and other consumables, large purchases in half, clothes-toys-flushes-benzin each for himself. She, who survived the divorce of her parents with the sharing of property up to the towels, agrees.
And everything was fine until she was stolen her wallet with a card on her salary day. Two weeks, with the withdrawal of the passport some problems.
At the end of two weeks, the picture is as follows: she has tea with bread for breakfast, coffee and biscuits for lunch, bread with water for dinner (the tea is over, the money is too), he has breakfast in a café next to work, lunch there, in the evening he either goes to a cafe/restaurant, or orders food for home, because there is no food at home. Thanks, even on toilet paper.
And she endured, no, not mercantile and independent, did not descend to custody and debts.
Are you sure this is a healthy situation?