And I taunted him until the hour of the night, and bathed him every day, and did all that was necessary. And my ambitious wife was sitting at home and swinging how difficult it was for her to put the underwear in the machine and boil the mixture for the child (on the ground she called her mom)..."
IMHO, the thing is just that you needed a child, and your wife didn’t. Any unwanted thing will be burdened, no matter how easy it really is.
I don't know what your situation is, but maybe your wife wanted a doll, and her husband persuaded her, but when faced with reality, she realized that it wasn't just flowers. And it became a break, washes, squeezers, agulles, that’s all. Here and gave as much as possible part of the duties to her husband, part - to her mother, well, and the free time, probably, spent on herself?
But most likely, she doesn’t even admit it to herself. After all, since childhood, she has been instilled by society that a woman is a mother, obliged to have, love and raise children, otherwise like unmarriedness. He acted according to the program. But in reality, not all women are ideal mothers, and not all should be.