The issue of gender stereotypes. A friend's trial with his brother in the division of the inherited apartment lasted three years - when the lying grandmother had to be cared for, it was called "not a man's business - pots to be carried out", and when the living space was released, "you will still pump yourself, and I must!" On the offer to learn to either carry pots or suck a brother (an adult uncle for thirty) was deeply and sincerely offended.