and name
I would like to advise you to change your name officially in your passport. seriously. To teach others to a new name is even easier than to a certain treatment (minimising, nickname). The process of changing documents is not as time-consuming as it seems - you need to get a new birth certificate in the ZAGS, then a passport. Well, and in detail - insurance, INN, honey. All types of bank cards. There are a few instances, mostly you just have to file an application and wait. Even with all the possible bureaucratic thread, the process will take a month (the longest of all is the passport table), and a couple of thousands of rubles for customs duties.
I decided and changed my unloved childhood name 2 years ago - it's such a joy! 100 for comfort. Now I think: why I endured at all 27 years, I had to go and change at the first opportunity :)
Good for you <3