All your problems with women come from uncertainty. You don't get a girl out of your head, so tell her about it in a direct text, on the other hand, too, many hints do not understand, it's general human. In the presence of information that she will be knocked out in all the cracks at the first opportunity, she will either agree to be friends on such conditions, or will fall away and will not illuminate and irritate various organs.
And if you are not able to clearly say what you need from a person, well, sit, friends, platonically, risking to spend your entire life.