Who thinks that someone has to build her life for a sad sheep. Do you want to stay in the sea and not want to live? Let him die. No one has to do anything for her.
Especially to get to know and work. Tea is not a disabled to splash on friends.

Do not go to her with advice. Do not go down entirely. If you don’t like the “soap on friends,” just turn around and go your way, and don’t shake a person’s brain with their “valuable opinions” like a bunch of angry thugs.