ooo: And I’t be saying so categorically that straight around is completely normal, wherever you can. Real statistics are a little different.
Here I remembered a Jewish joke about a rabbi who advised his adept to marry a crumbling and crumbling bride. They say you marry a beautiful woman, and suddenly - an accident, she breaks a leg, a spine. You treat it, drive it abroad, spend it, worry, nothing helps... And then you take what is already ready.