And so I can tell you what you need to do to be as happy as I am in my marriage, but I’m silent: I understand that I’m just lucky and my advice will probably not help anyone else.
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I don’t want to annoy you, dear, but what you describe is a typical form of normal behavior for an adult, intelligent and educated man. But what is currently a STATISTIC NORM (I am talking about the mass distribution of advice based on one’s own, individual experience) is just a deviation. But with the general degradation of society, the statistical average weighs precisely to such deviations. and s!