Sometimes suggestions are more effective than words.
When we started living with my wife, she studied, I worked. There were no questions about keeping the household, I wagered at 1.5 bets, and she had enough time.
Then she also went to work 9-18, which is actually 6-20. But in addition to everyday life, you want to go somewhere, meet friends, go for a walk, watch movies, read, and just relax. Time and effort for homework has become significantly less. At first, I got used to having to take the rubbish out of my duties.
And here in the light of a new life faced with the fact that the house affairs should be shared. In words I seemed to understand everything, and even agreed, but in fact there were always 100 reasons why not now, but later. Buying/doing reminders have disappeared in most cases. The conflict was shortened.
My wife acted wisely. Not a scandal, the type agreed. I breathed with relief. And then I noticed that we eat more and more pasta and strawberries, sausages, clothes appeared, suddenly, also does not wash itself and does not smooth.
Then I thought. I went from work, bought a little food, meat. I ate a fresh salad for dinner. During the week of dusting, the next day was a time for salt.
So love and respect each other, read the changes in behavior, and if you can't explain them yourself, then ask and clarify without hassles. Peace to you.