When they say passive-aggressive behavior, I remember my acquaintance travelling to my grandmother in Odessa. A typical morning - a friend wakes up, the grandmother puts her at the table and begins: "Eat granddaughter, eat. Are you tasty? Of course, it’s delicious, I’m standing behind the plate for three hours, and with my knees can I? Eat, eat and don’t get distracted. It’s nothing that I woke up at 6 in the morning, went for food, and then quickly came here to have time to make everything ready for you. “Eat your granddaughter, eat her.”