Life is as we imagine it. It all depends on our perception. Every situation can be looked at from different sides. You can be divorced and you can be free. You can be a burdened household, and you can be a guard of the fireplace. You can drag on a family, and you can be the support of loved ones. You can wipe your ass all your life, and you can devote yourself to children. You can even be hopelessly sick, and you can be aware of the outcome. Words are insidious, they decide what you will feel.