There is no thought:
In general, if you take off the pink glasses, the choice is heroic:
a) to be alone, free, constantly feeling peace, coldness and grief, and quietly destroy, trusting no one to love only the dog and career;
b) constantly break yourself, in order to somehow reconcile with the rhythm of a person's life, his rough relatives, habits, friends, constantly seeking compromise and suppressing irritation.
And the little breaks between all this, the brainstorming, when you stop fading, and for a short time forget about it all - and there is a kind of happiness.

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The top quote. Indeed, female wisdom