I had one fellow at the institute. An ordinary guy, 19 years old, a future operator, not ugly at all, with a sense of humor, with ambitions. Once he started complaining about my life, the keywords are the same: girls, friends, good, don’t give, alpha. I tried to notice him as tactically as possible, that, say, it would be good to stop the nails to bite, start to wash every day, use a deodorant, brush your teeth more often, revise the closet in part. Arguments to the fact that the manicure is therapeutic and nobody makes it paint, black spots can only be removed from a cosmetologist, and to lubricate your hands with a hand cream is normal, caused hysteria. The final phrase was "And in general, the main thing is that I am kind and caring, the appearance is not important at all".
This is all I need... boys, if you want girls to fall in love with you, then start watching for yourself. In everything, starting with the smell from the mouth and from the ankles and ending with walking and posture.