This is:
This stupid

Any more or less mentally healthy person has the desire to be good in his understanding and to have a positive reputation in significant people around him. Probably your girls are showing you. And the fact that they do not agree to a two-year test drive suggests that you are not so attractive to them to spend so much precious time on you without a guarantee of results. This doesn’t characterize your girls very well and makes you foolish as a person who repeatedly chooses such girls. As I can see, you don’t talk about feelings, you’re your ladies like a cowboy on articles.
You understand and judge. Why are you so surprised by their cynicism?

A young girl. Don’t make people laugh at your kindergarten ideas about life.
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The argument is fucking idiomatic.)