To compare his mother, a steroid manipulator, and the mother of his friends, a grown-up child does not need to have seven paws in the forehead. If he cannot or does not want to do that, then there is a way for him. Every manipulator finds his victims, and every victim finds his manipulator.

I am stupid, I suppose. For a very long time I had no idea that other children were not beaten like me. After all, in our family this is normal and we don’t talk about it with everyone in a row. Well, beat the child with a stick to swollen blues, what to say? It is my fault, there is nothing to complain about. Others probably beat, but they don’t complain! So I shouldn’t either.
When I found out, I didn’t believe it for a long time. How are they not beating? What, at all? She is lying. Surely they also rub and belt, and a towel, and just on the face... Just don’t say, shame, she got for something, and she’s silent! Everyone is beaten, how can children be raised without "beating out all the foolishness"?