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To all fans of the slogan "All the best - children" I want to remind you of a parable that was previously read in primary school:
This boy has a greedy mother. She will never let him eat a candy without sharing it with her!
Then the boy grew up, his mother grew old, and the same people began to say:
“This guy has a happy mother, he will never eat a piece without sharing it with her.
This is what we are talking about, and you with your screams will take away from yourself - I will give the child only to corrupt your children, growing out of them selfish and egocentric.

Once listened to a conversation with a child psychologist, and there she told me that she had a difficult period in her life when there was no money at all. And if she miraculously turned around, she could suddenly buy her son an apple or a banana. She must cut it in half, hid one half in the refrigerator, and gave the other to the child, saying I had already eaten my half, and the next day gave him the second with the same words.

Alexin has a story of "In the rear as in the rear", a mother with an eleven-year-old son was during the war for the Urals, worked as a horse, and all the additional payments gave the son entirely. Then she fell ill with pneumonia and died. The doctor said that it could be cured, but the body is excessively exhausted, weakly resistant to disease. The boy was left without his mother, but he felt guilty for his whole life.