to this:

Well, or they are all sewn in a row, have unrealistic exaggerated requirements and look so unattainable that not everyone decides to approach...

The late virgin is more afraid of the boy. Therefore, it can be cut off - scary, too fast and even dark. There are several types of virgins: those in whom personal space is open, they are deprived of virginity easily and in time; involuntary - keep virginity, because they are so inspired or forced (people or psychophysiological circumstances - it does not matter); closed - they in principle want, but their personal space is closed, they are not so easy to take and go even to the level of "simply friends". To take such, you need to be: a) confident in yourself, b) delicate, c) patient, d) truly want to, and d) not to let go. You need to reach a certain level of closeness with such a person. These are not exaggerated requirements, but quite normal - not having sex with someone you don't trust and who you don't love (you personally want the lady, not the usual, so too overwhelming). Many guys are not confident in themselves, they fall away immediately; not many are delicate at the right level of confidence - they are just naughty, it scares the girl; not everyone has enough patience for the shots of a person with low self-esteem - they psychize and leave, adding scars to the soul and chasing it even deeper into themselves; and, finally, not all are brave, and not all really want it. The Virgin remains waiting for the only one who will pass her cockroaches. Such things.