If coping with a single child is so difficult, it is worth limiting itself to fish? Wait until you realize that no one, except those who voluntarily agreed, is obliged to you, and then to give birth and raise an independent personality?
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If no one, except those who voluntarily agreed, is obliged to help a woman raise her child, which is generally right, then later that child also owes nothing to anyone except her own mother. Moreover, he is not obliged to leave a young wife with a baby in the army, which, in fact, a young woman complains in the original post. It is unlikely that the man voluntarily agreed to this - there are much simpler and more pleasant ways to leave a woman with a child. He wanted to volunteer for her. did not give.