to this:

If a woman in her 30s looks like she’s 18, don’t talk to her like a 18-year-old. I don’t know what is incomprehensible here.
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In general, no one has the right to talk disrespectfully to you even when you are 18 (not a man, right?Not even at 30. I need to send such a message and that’s all. Everyone has their head on their shoulders, and you can’t allow any life-offended nonsense to talk to you in such a tone.