The Hickey:

Hi Hi Hi Hi Hi I know a family with five children. I repeat five. They live very poorly. Children are educated and polite. Asked my mother, how toxicosis and other charms? How could she have decided to do so? The first time, there was no toxicity. And the rest of the times - there was no time, only have time to turn, with such an eagle. So it’s not a matter of hormones, it’s a matter of behavior priorities. If the priority is on the selfish demand for increased attention to his person, it is one thing. And if there are more important things... it is not time to go out.

Well, yes, I will divorce someone else’s trouble.
And I know a family in which one child, the mother during pregnancy had such toxicosis that she was placed in the hospital, and doctors insisted on abortion.
Do not equate all to the same denominator, people are not the same details, but each has their own stories.