Well, your kids didn’t do it around you to not breathe on them and on you. It is your task to protect your child and not to disrupt the comfort of passers in line, in transport, etc. A child is the same person as an adult, why are you demanding privileges for him? What does your child say to those around you, so that they almost don’t see you fall in a wheelchair? It is difficult to operate with a wheelchair - buy a sling, you will be more mobile, and more compact, and faster. There is no excuse for shame. Whether you are a mother at least four times is the fault of your maternal instinct, not your late passing uncle.
Mother of a year old daughter.