Where do they come from "self fool"? Do you earn so that all the expenses are on you? So buy this damn ice cream when you want ice cream! The most cherished padishah in the general budget does not throw a penny and money for something is not enough? Sorry dear, we only have tea for lunch today! You are not obliged to pay for his loans, just like keeping an adult capable person.

I am for female responsibility. If with a man, do not bring heaven, something happened - trauma or severe illness - if the infamous loan before the dawn of the operation was needed, then yes, then a loving woman will stretch the belt stronger and will support it, no matter how hard it is. But when money really just knows where it is going, it will be superfluous from time to time to make a sandwich only for yourself - and only a masochistic moral will expect that he will suddenly change himself, and at least for her own money, but will buy an ice cream as a sign of attention.