Dear boy, listen to the grandmother-cap, if you only need a bed, and communication is stressful, and even more if you suspect that you are a disorderly woman 'doit' - not to drive her through the cafés. Either you take care of it - and when you refuse to write a new song to sing it to another girl, or you make friends - but then friends with flowers and candy don't chew. Do you feed a lot of friends of your sex exclusively at your own expense in the cafe (not due to the situation of DR or temporary financial difficulties, but constantly)? Do they strike you unilaterally? Doylka (any, by the way, gender) from the real _friendly_ relationship will quickly self-eliminate. And if you are an obsessive fan - then you are not able to complain, you are wasting your own life - and enough new-fashioned terms to translate responsibility to others.