Yes, children are an unwanted consequence of sex. conducted a survey in the office. of 120 women. The four floors. So, "wanted, but not now" – the majority. Nevertheless, an unpleasant surprise turned out to be untimely, broken plans, unfinished initiatives. A little less - they were not happy at all, but the pressure of the family and society forced them. I explain - the woman is married for 7 years, and here - it happened. "Wouldn't anyone understand me if I didn't have a baby" is this the right motivation? Or “If I didn’t fly, he’t get married.” And only one said that she dreamed of kids from school! And her only thought was to give birth, and sooner, and to feed, and to press, and to bow... Well, clearly, she has four children. My husband is not. And never was. For men, I do not know the statistics, we have very few of them, I did not ask them, or it would be unscientific. An unrepresentative sample, in a word.