When I became seriously ill at the age of 30 and was in the hospital for more than a month, a neighbor of the house urged me to take my hands and go home. This is despite the fact that the way from the bed to the toilet for me was on the verge of physical possibilities. Nothing, she said, you will be in the hospital, get up, clean up, throw things in the laundry and lie down. After lunch, she got up and cooked dinner again. But the husband is watched and fed. And all the other women whispered and told their stories as they were left alone (all were chronicles and were sick for many years, periodically lying in the hospital). All six women aged 40 to 65! Since then, I myself lie in the hospital a couple of times a year and rarely meet married sisters by misfortune. Fortunately, my was an exception.
The same thing happens in our oncologist. The aunts and themselves in the rows stand, and the men in the wheelchairs ride their own. That, on the contrary, these are isolated cases, and a man like that is a hero.
And the statistics this male sex denies. Tip, nine, we are not goats, I would never! Well, and those who abandoned a sick wife - they always have an explanation - her character has ruined, shattered, there is no passion of the former... I am not to blame, caroch, all for the time being, get rid of yourself.