In my opinion, the right behavior for the educator is not to give the child to strangers, uncles and crocodiles, to begin with. And not after some time to get caught "and what aunt he takes all the time".
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Kids, I tell you the mechanism. If the child is taken from the garden by someone else, not the mom and dad, then a statement is written to the garden - indicating who can take the child. In some gardens, even a copy of the passport is required. And yes, the child can be taken by the grandmother or babysitter, not because the mother is antisocial behavior, but because she is a very busy person and comes back late from work.
Therefore, I suspect that the soul-breaking story is pure water fiction.