That needs to be honest. A "honest man" is an oxymoron. Almost all men have a scenario in their heads: I will marry at 20 on a peer, at 40-50 I will divorce and marry a young woman. Few people say frankly - no, I need to get on my feet first, until forty - no babies.
I married at twenty. Butterflies, when will you stop giving out your wet fantasies for the results of the alleged perception of men? Marrying at 20 is a pure baby jump, not even arising in the head of a high school student, who understands perfectly that he has no housing, no money, no firm plans for the future.