Do you want a doll or a submissive wise woman - prepare for what you will have to provide". You want an equal partner - well, you will have to respect him, take into account his opinion, not "I am the master and decide, and you, grandmother, know your place".

You need it all in one bottle. That and earned, and at home fully served you, and the upbringing of children fully taken over, and not drink, when you do not perform your duties. You have rights and you have duties.)

You have already been told that the male duty is to go to the army and retire later. The rest are women :)
A, no, still get swollen to a heart attack at 55 - so a man.