What is your business? Or are you one of those chickens who breaks into a closed door and cries:"Open me right away! What are you hiding there! I demand to open, I have the right to know! I’m going to go!"
Your husband is not your property, remember. He has territories that are inaccessible to you. Relax, shut up and forget. Wash your mouth with a decoction of rosemary. Otherwise, you will soon become a divorce - and by merit.
We have divorced our young boys.

And if it were the opposite, everyone would advise the husband to find out his wife's past.
Discriminators on the basis of gender.
and advice to silence your wife will give :)