The problem is not that she refused. Such things really need to be agreed before. And in the fact that, in principle, to ask a man for help is the norm, to ask for help from a woman is shameful and so only fools behave.

Depending on what to ask for help. If the uncle were asked to break through the blurred toilet, he would also refuse with indignation. A "beautiful to serve a table" (we already talked about here) or "choose a bouquet/gift for the boss" any woman would gladly agree.