From 2 to 4 times a year I, the most common middle-aged and medium-sized aunt, go to other cities for a few days. Of course, I take some amount of luggage with me, by public transport, because the metro in Moscow is more reliable than a taxi. There has never been a case that, seeing me dragging my suitcase down the stairs, none of the men offered me their help.
I have no illusions about my irresistible appearance and extraordinary sexual attractiveness, in two cases out of three with me a very elderly mother. Do I also have to think that these assistants need something from me, or can I stay with my opinion that we just have good people?