What to do, what to do...

And what, in your opinion, should a normal man, who loves his woman for character, for common views, but has some, say so, preferences about the figure? <... the next passage about what to send her insert breasts is the norm...>

To admit, at least to yourself, that it is not very much, is to love. Why is:
a) When you really love, then with all the bites, and not "I love here, but take this away and add here", the appearance becomes irrelevant. Many cases where men stayed with women and were loyal to them, despite those pounds gained, lost limbs or found on 2/3 of the body surface burns. It’s true love if you’re not aware, and many people of both sexes are capable of it, not just women.
b) To send a loved one under a knife, taking into account all the risks of anesthesia, surgery, how her body will perceive the interference, etc., ONLY in order to better soften your loved one is selfishness bordering on abyss.