What is most incomprehensible to me, as an ancient woman: if you earn equally in marriage, why not spend twelve thousand on anything you need without asking for permission from the nudded padishah? For housewives, the problem is understandable, for wives who initially go to work as seducers, it is also natural to bend, but in a normal marriage between two people who married for mutual interest and sympathy, where does this female sacrifice come from?