We are such by nature

I know a lot of people who are struggling with children. Many of them have no children yet. He met acquaintances with the child, chatted with him, ticked, followed. A friend's older brother enjoys sitting with his niece. Karate, there are many examples. I am afraid of the children myself. I do not bother and try not to contact.
Not in the field. Either you are a good parent or not. Yes, it is from nature.