I think you should intervene.

My daughter graduated. She is the only girl who was not allowed to participate in the dance because she is small. At the same time, she is the only girl who is professionally engaged in dancing, having a bunch of awards and grades, including international. The child was crying first and then laughing. I seem to have discovered a new law of pattern interaction: adhering to one leads to the rupture of the other.

Because I don’t remember that in our school at all there was a question of ‘permission’ or ‘prohibition’. Depriving a child of graduation dance due to growth is beyond the boundary. It smells of discrimination and flying hats from the heads of the administration.