Priority of holidays. She went to me somehow before my colleague's vacation and began to blame me for what I'm going for the second time in the summer (the vacation we've crushed), here's the xxx, she has a child. One parent for the whole department, xxh was fine and did not object, especially since her child was 15, and the schedule of holidays was approved in December. And then this protector of foreign children taught me that I don’t go there, "I need to go to the sea in the summer"))