All of my acquaintances with divorces with a trailer became such by their own foolishness, although in words, of course, blame the former. And until women start to engage their brains in choosing partners, nothing will change.

And since the husband before the birth of the wife and the husband after the birth of the wife are different people, it is better in any case to either not give birth at all, or to have personal capital at hand that allows you to live these three years, or to consider yourself a fool-divorced-with-trailer in advance. The observation is not only mine, confirmed by almost all acquaintances of the female sex. The vector of change can be different, but more often in the bad direction. The power over whom there is no place to go is corrupt.