Here is look. For example, I am fat (100+) I have a girlfriend (about 40). I have a couple of friends – Phytonash. And that is not a problem. I myself willingly admit that I am fat is NOT a bad word, not an insult. This is a constatation of fact. But you’re not limited to the word "thick", right? You won’t resist calling me a lazy, roasted beemot a piece of salt, a stinking stinker. And then I will call you Drift and Board. My girlfriend, note, I will never call it, and I will not even think of it on her side. Understand the mechanism?