Childhood is gold
And the girl learns how this guy at 3 years of age cried over some soulful song, which was played on TV, and at 4 years of age described himself in guests with aunt Tamara. And, of course, after this, the girl, having broken up, just ceases to perceive the guy as a man.
That’s your business, of course, but I think you’ll find such a girl right away. If the usual for a child is perceived as if in childhood you were catching on the frost - it will only get worse, the brain will be eaten.
About "perceive a guy as a man" I don’t even want to comment. The hard-built macho image dissipated like smoke as soon as my mom called me a grandson.