>>> But what prevented her from leaving BEFORE marriage, BEFORE far-reaching plans for life together were built, right? What prevented her from rejecting the proposal, if it was enough for six months — not two or three years, not even a year — to so much reject the marriage?

So how do we know what happened to you after your marriage, which you did not see before? The ideal marriage is at the time when you have been a family for many years, and the stamp in the passport is placed purely for the box. And not when he changes everything and translates the relationship to a new level because the stamp in the passport can’t change anything in the relationship.

>>> The same "yes" is not just a slander of the upper lip on the lower lip, it is a conscious expression of will. If you say it, then follow it. Is it not?

No is. Registration of marriage in any document does not impose on the spouses the obligation to be together until the end of the days. And the very word “yes” only indicates that a person has agreed at a given moment, and this does not mean that he can not change his mind now (or that he is not allowed to change his mind at all).

Well, do you really want your wife to be with you just because of a sense of duty?